Ladies in Nigeria not covering their bosoms.

Ladies in Nigeria Not Covering up their Bosoms
« on: May 27, 2005, 04:06 PM »

Originally: Can someone tell me why our ladies are exposing their bosom?

Everywhere you go today, men, you need an extra measure of self-control because of the kind of blouse our ladies wear this days. Is that the whether is too hot that they can no longer wear blouses that can cover their bosom properly or what?

Na mi o (f)
Re: Ladies in Nigeria Not Covering up their Bosoms
« #1 on: May 27, 2005, 04:35 PM »

The tin taya mi o my brother. Even as a woman, i get so irritated when i see such sights for sore eyes. I just wish everywoman cld become old fashioned.



Aidy (f)
Re: Ladies in Nigeria Not Covering up their Bosoms
« #2 on: May 27, 2005, 05:38 PM »

Well, it's unfortunate to see our ladies expose their bodies. To me any woman who exposes her self that way simply lacks self confident and moral. You see the reason they do that is becos they want to attract a man. The forget that the man will only get attracted to them just for sexual reason and will be on his heels once the booty has been collected. Our women should not look up to the westernied women who have no culture about decency. We should know better. It's very irritating seeing such, especially the very sagged bosoms that some of them flaunt around!

4evah (f)
Re: Ladies in Nigeria Not Covering up their Bosoms
« #3 on: May 27, 2005, 11:44 PM »

What I also think is that some just do follow follow (they want to 'belong!)!

Gosh, I feel so bad when I see them around, and I just wonder, "Am I not a lady as well?" but I know we are no equals ...

demmy (m)
Re: Ladies in Nigeria Not Covering up their Bosoms
« #4 on: May 28, 2005, 04:59 AM »

LOL @ everybody 'feeling bad' because Nigerian ladies are 'exposing' themselves. I'm sure you'll all get use to it. Grin

hotpikin (f)
Re: Ladies in Nigeria Not Covering up their Bosoms
« #5 on: May 28, 2005, 07:43 AM »

well, 2 me sha oh...it depends on how much of d bosoms r exposed besides it gets disgustin' when u see gurls or ladies wit slipper-like bosoms feelin' like they can expose their bosoms..i be like "worahell were u thinkin'Huh?... Roll Eyes

Seun (m)
Re: Ladies in Nigeria Not Covering up their Bosoms
« #6 on: May 28, 2005, 11:33 AM »

I don't object to it. Ladies, please feel free to wear as little clothing as you like! Please feel free to display your tummy/navel, cleavage, thigh, armpits, and everything.

But on one condition ... since you are displaying your body for the whole world to see, you must not object to public discussion of those body parts that are exposed. If you have chosen to display a part of your body for men to see, then men must be allowed to talk about it. Thank you!

kazey (m)
Re: Ladies in Nigeria Not Covering up their Bosoms
« #7 on: May 28, 2005, 01:15 PM »

Nigerian Ladies are exposing their bosom, because thats the fashion this days." SHOW ME YOUR BODY AND I WOULD KNOW HOW COOL YOU ARE". But i taught we love freedom of everything ?
Give them the freedom. Freedom of dressing !!

legry (m)
Re: Ladies in Nigeria Not Covering up their Bosoms
« #8 on: May 28, 2005, 01:37 PM »

What do you want them dressed in wrapper, trend and civilization its bound to happen, trust me 15 years from now they wont even wear tops or bra exposed bosom would be the fashion we just hope undies would be allowed then Huh Huh

legry (m)
Re: Ladies in Nigeria Not Covering up their Bosoms
« #9 on: May 28, 2005, 02:00 PM »

people have a lovely holiday ill see you all on tuesday CIAO!!!! Grin Grin Grin Cool Cool Cool

drwhopl (m)
Re: Ladies in Nigeria Not Covering up their Bosoms
« #10 on: May 31, 2005, 03:15 PM »

You really want to know why Nigerian women expose their bosoms? It's a thing they see in foreign movies or musical videos, so our women want to feel 'among'.

Let me put it this way: they want to show their sexuality because they know they can attract any man to get what they want.

All, in short, is for the dough[money]; you've got to believe me. I'm out.

slimprisi (m)
Re: Ladies in Nigeria Not Covering up their Bosoms
« #11 on: May 31, 2005, 03:39 PM »

Hey man, you shouldn't blame them. They are just trying to be sexy and set the man out of control and at the same time trying to be attractive to the man.

There was this short amn (Ruky) who was telling me how girls seduce men by wearing all manners of clithing to get the men excited. You know, and most of our men can't resist such a thing and they tend to fall.

Remember, Eve made Adam eat the devil'd fruit and that tells you women are the source of life and death. But I love them (girls). Sometimes they are like God's children and sometimes like the devil angels.

I'm sorry, girls, don't get mad at me. That's how to show the world how it's supposed to go.

legry (m)
Re: Ladies in Nigeria Not Covering up their Bosoms
« #12 on: May 31, 2005, 04:34 PM »

oga you be rapper abi MC i for like know o

whizkid (f)
Re: Ladies in Nigeria Not Covering up their Bosoms
« #13 on: May 31, 2005, 05:58 PM »

If you've got it flaunt it. Grin. It is not easy you know, people pay thousands for bosom enlargement and the likes. So guys, you can look but can't touch Grin.

KING GUZU
Re: Ladies in Nigeria Not Covering up their Bosoms
« #14 on: May 31, 2005, 06:14 PM »

Its a real pity that all sense of decency seems to have been lost but i feel that these are depraved people not deprived.They worsen the already tense environment and turn back to shout sexual harassment.I will not hesitate to take a good look if i see one and feel no qualms about it Grin

donssignour
Re: Ladies in Nigeria Not Covering up their Bosoms
« #15 on: May 31, 2005, 06:35 PM »

Quote from: drwhopl on May 31, 2005, 03:15 PM
You really want to know why Nigerian women expose their bosoms? It's a thing they see in foreign movies or musical videos, so our women want to feel 'among'.

Let me put it this way: they want to show their sexuality because they know they can attract any man to get what they want.

All, in short, is for the dough[money]; you've got to believe me. I'm out.

abrakson (f)
Re: Ladies in Nigeria Not Covering up their Bosoms
« #16 on: May 31, 2005, 07:36 PM »

hi all
i be woman to oo but i agree with 4evah na follow follow dey do dem
i tink its an indecent thing to do revaeling your most treasured possession to all is not worth it
what then will they look forward to seeing when u have reveled all so i think thats why guys just use them and dump them well its an opinion dont fuss

mamba (m)
Re: Ladies in Nigeria Not Covering up their Bosoms
« #17 on: May 31, 2005, 07:52 PM »

They are not exposing their bosoms, they are only exposing their cleavage.....

This is called fashion, it makes them more attractive....

Seun (m)
Re: Ladies in Nigeria Not Covering up their Bosoms
« #18 on: May 31, 2005, 09:08 PM »

Yeah. 'Cleavage' - space between the bosoms.

Thanks but no thanks, ladies, please keep your cleavage tucked away if you don't want us to talk about it openly like we would talk about your face!

jogego (m)
Re: Ladies in Nigeria Not Covering up their Bosoms
« #19 on: May 31, 2005, 09:48 PM »

LOL Tongue if you all think Naija girls expose themselves, then you need to see the average jamo girl during summer in London, then you would agree with me that Naija girls dress like Nuns....he he heee

Seun (m)
Re: Ladies in Nigeria Not Covering up their Bosoms
« #20 on: May 31, 2005, 11:39 PM »

Quote from: KING GUZU
I will not hesitate to take a good look if I see one and feel no qualms about it Grin
Thank you my brother. I made the same decision some time ago. If you don't want me to stare at it or talk about it, please don't display it.

Quote from: trish
So guys, you can look but can't touch. Cheesy
Is that so? Would you like to see a man staring at your cleavage while you're displaying it publicly?

dablessed (f)
Re: Ladies in Nigeria Not Covering up their Bosoms
« #21 on: June 01, 2005, 12:09 AM »

Jogego,

You dont want to start the Jamo girls issue do you?

jogego (m)
Re: Ladies in Nigeria Not Covering up their Bosoms
« #22 on: June 01, 2005, 09:50 AM »

Quote from: dablessed on June 01, 2005, 12:09 AM
Jogego,

You dont want to start the Jamo girls issue do you?


emmmm!!! dablessed, what am I starting? Huh

olaide07 (f)
Re: Ladies in Nigeria Not Covering up their Bosoms
« #23 on: June 01, 2005, 10:43 AM »

Quote from: Aidy on May 27, 2005, 05:38 PM
Well, it's unfortunate to see our ladies expose their bodies. To me any woman who exposes her self that way simply lacks self confident and moral. You see the reason they do that is becos they want to attract a man. The forget that the man will only get attracted to them just for sexual reason and will be on his heels once the booty has been collected. Our women should not look up to the westernied women who have no culture about decency. We should know better. It's very irritating seeing such, especially the very sagged bosoms that some of them flaunt around!

This is a new trend in fashion: clothes that reveal part of the bosom (cleavage and sometimes the bossom). What you wear does not say who you are. Me wearing such does not make me morally debased. I wear it to suit my taste and weather. You don't expect me to wear wool from up to my ankle in a harch weather. Talk about guys that plait their hair.

mosiate (f)
Re: Ladies in Nigeria Not Covering up their Bosoms
« #24 on: June 01, 2005, 03:16 PM »

This topic looks somehow raw Embarrassed,

Anyway everybody knows why. All the ladies that dress that way want to be sexy because of you guys. To say the truth, it is actually what you want. I mean the whole world would have being boring if all the ladies go on wearing long skirt and blouses all about. It's the latest in town.

But mind you I don't dress that way shaaaaa ...

mamba (m)
Re: Ladies in Nigeria Not Covering up their Bosoms
« #25 on: June 01, 2005, 08:18 PM »

Lagos is not a sharia state so no yawa!

I personally like the low neckline tops cos it reveals the package the lady has under the top.
It's simply chic and trendy.

paulibling (m)
Re: Ladies in Nigeria Not Covering up their Bosoms
« #26 on: June 02, 2005, 10:05 AM »

This is unbelievable brethren. This issue has been giving me headache. They do expose themselves because they are irresponsible. Decent girls don't do that nonsense. I'm using this opportunity to tell them that that's not the way to get gentlemen like us. Let them all go away!

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dominobaby (f)
Re: Ladies in Nigeria Not Covering up their Bosoms
« #27 on: June 02, 2005, 11:39 AM »

It seems a shame that gurls have been reduced to an object of lust.

R E S P E C T - that's the way guys got to look at gurls. You don't have to expose all to look trendy, attractive or "in vogue" mind you. I'd rather you don't display your physical, use your mind!

Guys act like all a girl's to be is a sexy sexy thing.

demmy (m)
Re: Ladies in Nigeria Not Covering up their Bosoms
« #28 on: June 02, 2005, 05:16 PM »

What is wrong with everybody? I can't believe what I'm reading! Now whats wrong with women being sexy? We will rather women start dressing like "ELEHA" in veils?



Seun (m)
Re: Ladies in Nigeria Not Covering up their Bosoms
« #29 on: June 02, 2005, 07:59 PM »

I do not like seeing what I cannot touch or talk about.

femade05 (m)
Re: Ladies in Nigeria Not Covering up their Bosoms
« #30 on: June 02, 2005, 08:49 PM »

Angry It's because the family values of old has broken down completely. Worse still, we don't have god role models now.

Anyone that has seen the First Lady, Stella Obasanjo, in recent times shuld not be suprised if young Nigerian girls who are looking up to such people go really unclothed. I dont know whom she wants to impress by exposing her bosoms.

I was embarrased and shocked to my bones when I saw Mrs. Obasanjo clapping and smiling at a fashion show where one of the contestants had one of her bosoms completely uncovered, and the program was aired on NTA Channel 5, Abuja. Its a shame!!!.

Why would such girls not be despoiled? I think Sharia proponents realy have a point here!
God, pplease give us good mothers and role models!!!!

benmike (m)
Re: Ladies in Nigeria Not Covering up their Bosoms
« #31 on: June 02, 2005, 11:47 PM »

Quote from: demmy on June 02, 2005, 05:16 PM
What is wrong with everybody? I can't believe what I'm reading! Now whats wrong with women being sexy? We will rather women start dressing like "ELEHA" in veils?

Hi, demmy,

I am new here and I was going through the chat and read your reaction to the topic of discussion. Well, I want to say that you are not getting the gist clearly. it is not that women should not look sexy, but that they should be as decent as decent in their outfits.

There are many other ways by which a woman can look sexy and still attract the attention of men but what is the essence of a married woman trying to look sexy? Is she looking for another husband?

In the case of our youths, with I presume you are part of, why in the world should a "lady" considering her african traditional values and culture go to the extent of showing all her valuables to the public just to get a boyfriend?

It's uncalled for. Africans naturally are beautiful; we only need to come to appreciate our colour and natural endowments. If at the end of the day a girl gets a boy who only admires her "burst" and her "buttocks" as she presented it to him and doesnt even love her as a person, she would surely live to regret it. Because the love that is supposed to be for her personality is going to be just for her physical attributes and these are not what makes a human being.

We should learn to present our characters or personalities and see who will appreciate us with them and love us because of them. There are lots to be said about this issue but let me side step for now.

Thank you. Smiley