Does True Love Exist Among Nigerian Lovers?

Does True Love Exist Among Nigerian Lovers
« on: February 07, 2006, 09:08 PM »

just want to know if theres anything like true love among nigerian lovers.not trying to be sacarstic about it. can people love without attaching alot of qualities,these days is like love is synomynous to good qualities mainly materials. pls put me wrong or educate me if i am uninformed

hot-angel (f)
Re: Does True Love Exist Among Nigerian Lovers
« #1 on: February 07, 2006, 10:54 PM »

Well yes.

smartsoft (m)
Re: Does True Love Exist Among Nigerian Lovers
« #2 on: February 08, 2006, 01:33 AM »

It exit, when you find that real person.. but believe me..i will keep saying it.. Love is a course on is own..samething like relationship you got to study very hard before you can say u love someone because that word love is kind of strong..

so it exit if you have someone who understands it better.

layi (m)
Re: Does True Love Exist Among Nigerian Lovers
« #3 on: February 08, 2006, 12:24 PM »

Is there any such thing as a "Nigerian Lover".

juwon (m)
Re: Does True Love Exist Among Nigerian Lovers
« #4 on: February 08, 2006, 01:14 PM »

well i do it every girl i date i take them as mother of my kids to be but they seems to bleep up all times may be becos i show them i fall in love so much becos i do pet women and care although i got no money but seriously i give out wat a woman needs 100%

funloving (m)
Re: Does True Love Exist Among Nigerian Lovers
« #5 on: February 08, 2006, 01:21 PM »

This topic gives me a strong feeling that Nigerians do not even believe in love and romance and that we are incapable of true love.
I have been following a number of threads on this site and the impression I get is that Nigerians are poor lovers and clueless when it comes to romance.
I am kind of scared and sad because while I haven't bother myself with intimate relationships with girls(I don't believe in dating for dating sake unless I want to marry the girl) I wish to have a beautiful, romantic and lovely relationship when the time comes.But is seems my people have lost or do not have the touch.
Anyway,I believe true love can still exist among Nigerians .You just have to pray and search for the right person.

DAMMYGLOW (f)
Re: Does True Love Exist Among Nigerian Lovers
« #6 on: February 08, 2006, 01:36 PM »

LOVE does exist but it is very scarce
especially with the guys
they are so stingy with their feeling (there are some good ones though)
when a girl loves you
she put in her very best to make it work
but with guys (some) they claim they love you
and still cheat on you.

i dont expect everyone to agree with my view but
i beleive most ladies agree with me

maurice231 (m)
Re: Does True Love Exist Among Nigerian Lovers
« #7 on: February 08, 2006, 01:55 PM »

Before we can address this issue, we have to know the meaning of TRUE LOVE.
So let somebody tell us the meaning of true love.

smartsoft (m)
Re: Does True Love Exist Among Nigerian Lovers
« #8 on: February 08, 2006, 10:48 PM »

You can lead us. plsssssssss

b_e_b_e (f)
Re: Does True Love Exist Among Nigerian Lovers
« #9 on: February 09, 2006, 05:33 AM »

Quote from: juwon on February 08, 2006, 01:14 PM
well i do it every girl i date i take them as mother of my kids to be but they seems to mess up all times may be because i show them i fall in love so much because i do pet women and care although i got no money but seriously i give out what a woman needs 100%

Well, to the unappreciative women out there who don't understand that a man's love can be genuine, you are probably perceived as being weak because you give your all in the relationship and cater to them. It does not take money, money, money, money to do thoughtful things for a woman. You can be creative and give something original and if she's the right type of woman the original gift will be just as special to her than if you were to go out and buy something.

Try to get to know a person before you give your all. You can tell where someone is coming from or if they possess the qualities you desire them to have just by spending time talking to them. Just listen closely to what is being said (even in general conversation when you are around others).

b_e_b_e (f)
Re: Does True Love Exist Among Nigerian Lovers
« #10 on: February 09, 2006, 05:34 AM »

and yes............................TRUE LOVE does exist Smiley

chistiana (f)
Re: Does True Love Exist Among Nigerian Lovers
« #11 on: November 03, 2006, 12:19 PM »

True Love do exist havent u seen where A man of 45 marries a lady of 17 years,

Thats when i know the so called love exist: but one thing about we Nigerian is that we cant even differenciate between love and Lust cause they have so many things in common.

ThoniaSlim (f)
Re: Does True Love Exist Among Nigerian Lovers
« #12 on: November 09, 2006, 11:38 PM »

love exist.

chistiana (f)
Re: Does True Love Exist Among Nigerian Lovers
« #13 on: November 10, 2006, 08:59 AM »

Quote from: maurice231 on February 08, 2006, 01:55 PM
Before we can address this issue, we have to know the meaning of TRUE LOVE.
So let somebody tell us the meaning of true love.

Here is the meaning of Love

i think love is never tired of waiting; love is kind; love has no envy; love has no high opinion of itself, love has no pride; love's ways are ever fair, it takes no thought for itself; it is not quickly made angry, it keeps no accounts of wrong; it takes no pleasure in wrongdoing, but has joy in what is true; love has the power of undergoing all things, having faith in all things, hoping all things. though the prophet's word may come to an end, tongues come to nothing, and knowledge have no more value, love has no end.

Descriptions fo been In Love

I believe that love can be described in more ways than one and there sure are different kinds of love you feel for someone but when you can't eat and can't sleep because all you think about is that special someone than you are definately in love. Ever sit on the couch thinking your going to relax and read a book or something and you look down and your on page 10 of the book but because your mind is thinking about the person you just can't seem to get your mind off of you have to go all the way back to page number one, or you have a date with that special someone and when you glance at him/her for the first time that night your stomach knots with butterflies and you suddenly feel so sick because there's the man(woman) of your dreams standing in front of you, my defintion of love is when you can't wait to see that person again; when you get dropped off at home but run for the phone just so you can hear their voice once again; when you would give anything to be together just five more minutes; you trust them with all of your heart; your comfortable together and know you could talk about anyhting; you are there for each other no matter what good or bad; you stand beside them proudly with confidence and last but definately not least, sharing speacial moments that one day you know will make wonderful memories to look back on and share with the ones you love the most

jammin (m)
Re: Does True Love Exist Among Nigerian Lovers
« #14 on: November 10, 2006, 08:40 PM »

christiana i dont agree with you Cool

hot chic (f)
Re: Does True Love Exist Among Nigerian Lovers
« #15 on: November 10, 2006, 09:02 PM »

I personally,am findin it hard 2 believe that true love exist.As a matter of fact d best love am seeing out dea is reciprocal luv,the luv of treating him the way he treats me and vice versa,funny though i went through a proposal topic and guyz talk abt kneelin down wen dey wanna propose but after d wedding wot happens.I no believe in this kind true luv thingy oooooo.And women wey no divorce dea man no be luv wey dey dea na 4 dea kids sake and 4 d kind face wey pple go dey take luk @ dem.

chistiana (f)
Re: Does True Love Exist Among Nigerian Lovers
« #16 on: November 11, 2006, 09:02 AM »

Quote from: jammin on November 10, 2006, 08:40 PM
christiana i don't agree with you Cool

If u dont agree with me u prove urs beside are u in the opposite side or the right side which one u dey.

chistiana (f)
Re: Does True Love Exist Among Nigerian Lovers
« #17 on: November 11, 2006, 09:31 AM »

Quote from: jammin on November 10, 2006, 08:40 PM
christiana i don't agree with you Cool

If u dont agree with me u prove urs beside are u in the opposite side or the right side which one u dey.

boladonas (m)
Re: Does True Love Exist Among Nigerian Lovers
« #18 on: November 26, 2006, 12:10 AM »

Quote from: chistiana on November 03, 2006, 12:19 PM
True Love do exist havent u seen where A man of 45 marries a lady of 17 years,

Thats when i know the so called love exist: but one thing about we Nigerian is that we can't even differenciate between love and Lust cause they have so many things in common.
Quote from: DAMMYGLOW on February 08, 2006, 01:36 PM
LOVE does exist but it is very scarce
especially with the guys
they are so stingy with their feeling (there are some good ones though)
when a girl loves you
she put in her very best to make it work
but with guys (some) they claim they love you
and still cheat on you.

Christiana , i think u re correct true love exist

@dammy , I disagree with u
Nigerian men who are lovers are genuine lovers
maybe u ve been meeting players
anyway d ladies taught men how to play them lol

i don't expect everyone to agree with my view but
i beleive most ladies agree with me

Busta (f)
Re: Does True Love Exist Among Nigerian Lovers
« #19 on: November 26, 2006, 03:47 AM »

why stereotype?

hot chic (f)
Re: Does True Love Exist Among Nigerian Lovers
« #20 on: April 21, 2007, 08:36 PM »

I believe love still exist among Nigerian lovers.Infact Nigerian guys really fall in love but very rare.If you really wait and take your time,you might find your true love,thats if you dont believe you have to bite so many chickens before deciding the best.Be a very decent and modest guy,u cant always eat your cake and have it,its never that bad,there is always someone out there that will treat you right.Dont get that fact into your head,else you will neer find the right patner.

The worst is reciprocal love and thats still ok if you will treat your partner right.

U1 (m)
Re: Does True Love Exist Among Nigerian Lovers
« #21 on: April 22, 2007, 12:54 PM »

Honestly speaking,that is hard to come across nowadays.But I'm not ruling the possibility
out completely.But what you will likely get from some ladies is this: If you ain't got no
money get your broke butt,HOME(Fergie ft Ludacris)

kingkams (m)
Re: Does True Love Exist Among Nigerian Lovers
« #22 on: April 22, 2007, 06:00 PM »

Well, let me start by saying in my own world, True love EXISTED. That is due to the fact that most Nigerian girls have already inflicted too much harm. They ptetend to love you but 'KILL' you in some ways. For that, i believe true love cannot work with Nigerian Girls. No offence intended.

samsilo (m)
Re: Does True Love Exist Among Nigerian Lovers
« #23 on: April 23, 2007, 04:18 AM »

True love definitely exists among Nigerians but like someone said,long mouth no gree vulture make e get full cheeks. Other factors have pushed love to the sideline.In Nigeria today many ,many girls are driven by both poverty and greed.
The disadvantaged position of women due to a male dominated society puts men in a position where a lot of them just look at women as objects that can be bought and paid for. There few jobs after leaving school and many parents cannot meet with their kids demands(not needsoo!).
It is a sad situation and unfortunately I don't see any hope as far as the economy remains the way it is.Its all about money for hair, money for handset , recharge cards Cry Cry
Romance and love tend to flee this sort of arrangements so it is getting rarer than before

byby naija (m)
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« #24 on: April 23, 2007, 04:37 AM »

[b] true love does not exist anymore! especially now that we are in world of money rules our woman, they even fancy money than love, they will always tell u love is blind, and love without money, u know what it means,lol. they even prefer to love older man that the younger man, all in the sake of money. who knows what might happen in ten years to come, maybe woman will always love woman (lesbian) and man will always love man (gay) in Nigeria and get married. But my answer to your question is, that i believe my girl friend love me, lol

Aproko (f)
Re: Does True Love Exist Among Nigerian Lovers
« #25 on: April 23, 2007, 11:48 AM »

true love does exist in Nigeria though it may be hard to find.
Quote from: byby naija on April 23, 2007, 04:37 AM
[b] true love does not exist anymore! especially now that we are in world of money rules our woman, they even fancy money than love, they will always tell u love is blind, and love without money, u know what it means,lol. they even prefer to love older man that the younger man, all in the sake of money. who knows what might happen in ten years to come, maybe woman will always love woman (lesbian) and man will always love man (gay) in Nigeria and get married. But my answer to your question is, that i believe my girl friend love me, lol

who says there are no gold digging men?

nyabinghi (m)
Re: Does True Love Exist Among Nigerian Lovers
« #26 on: June 16, 2007, 01:25 PM »

Hi guys,

I don't believe true love exists, most people date for ulterior motives. I want the babes to be factual, u claim to date based on good looks, sizeable bank account and some fetish reasons also the guys "love" for the sexual physique such as hot legs,nice hips, pert arse, cool bosoms et al. I don't really believe in true love. The only true love is the one u can get from your siblings and parents.
Nuff said.

salsera (f)
Re: Does True Love Exist Among Nigerian Lovers
« #27 on: June 16, 2007, 03:36 PM »

Quote from: nyabinghi on June 16, 2007, 01:25 PM
Hi guys,

I don't believe true love exists, most people date for ulterior motives. I want the babes to be factual, u claim to date based on good looks, sizeable bank account and some fetish reasons also the guys "love" for the sexual physique such as hot legs,nice hips, pert arse, cool bosoms et al. I don't really believe in true love. The only true love is the one u can get from your siblings and parents.
Nuff said.

and how did you come about having parents and siblings

first thought that came to mind when i saw this thread was 'r u white'
cos whats the issue with Nigerian lovers , do we have brown blood rather than white

@poster
r sure someone didnt just jilt you and that's why we are here with Nigerian lovers

like we we have German shepards Wink

next thing we'll have Itsekiri lovers Grin

NaijaFuss (m)
Re: Does True Love Exist Among Nigerian Lovers
« #28 on: June 20, 2007, 06:59 PM »

Kool YEAH

kemu_lala (f)
Re: Does True Love Exist Among Nigerian Lovers
« #29 on: June 21, 2007, 06:28 AM »

I doubt it

luxoire (f)
Re: Does True Love Exist Among Nigerian Lovers
« #30 on: June 21, 2007, 09:42 AM »

WHERE THERE IS HONEST, SINCEREITY, ATTRACTION, and all the necessary ingredients, LOVE WILL EXIST, despite the nationalities, it is human

your question is just a bit rude, and kinda asks, ARE NIGERIANS HUMANS?, heck all humans are capable of love

amaikama (m)
Re: Does True Love Exist Among Nigerian Lovers
« #31 on: February 25, 2008, 06:08 PM »

"Does True Love Exist Among Nigerian Lovers"? Good question! but no answer yet. True love exists but can one find it among Nigerian men / women folks? and what sort of love exist between them?